How To Stop Being Boring With Women?
In this topic, Stacie, a young attractive woman, is dating a smart, intelligent man, John. Off late, Stacie is becoming boring with John even though he does everything she wants. Like Stacie, many women complain that many men are boring. Even some of the more intelligent men come across as boring. In this article, I am going to teach you How To Stop Being Boring With Women?
I will address one of the core mistakes men make. Let us look at the two scenarios to make you understand more about being predictable. Then how to avoid being boring with women.
Also, how you can become unpredictable, mysterious, spontaneous, and romantic with small changes in your act. So, How To Stop Being Boring With Women? Let us look at two scenarios below:
Here Is The Story Of John:
There is a man named John who likes Stacie very much. Stacie tells me that she would love to get flowers, and she would love John to take her to a nice restaurant for dinner on Saturday night.
As John is a nice guy, he gives Stacie flowers and took her to the restaurant she wanted to go to on Saturday night. Now Stacie got what she wanted. She told him where to do it when to do it, and of course, our boring John did exactly what she said.
Where’s the mystery, spontaneity, and romance? Everything is predictable, boring, and that as per her norms, no suspense at all. How boring is the process?
Here Is The Story Of Sam:
A man named “Sam” likes the “Amber” very much but never predictably tells that. Amber tells him that she would love to get flowers from Sam and go out for dinner on Saturday to one of her favorite restaurants.
Sam told Amber that he is busy on Saturday. However, it is okay for him to take her for lunch on Thursday. They had lunch together, but he did not give her flowers.
A couple of weeks later, Sam surprised Amber on Wednesday night dinner by taking her to the restaurant she wanted to go to. When they arrive, he has the waiter bring her some flowers that he arranged in advance. Now tell me, is that boring?
What is the difference between John and Sam?
John gave Stacie exactly what she wanted when she wanted that too completely on her terms. John was so predictable in all his actions. Being predictable is boring to everyone, not only to women. Let me ask you a question. Do you like a friend that can be guessed even before he opens his mouth? Similarly, women easily get bored with predictable men.
On the other hand, Sam gave Amber what she wanted but on his terms. You must have understood this time, and the spontaneous Wednesday day date was much more exciting than the boring, predictable Saturday date.
Lead Your Love And Make Her Feel Spiced Up And Exciting With You:
If John continues this behavior, off late, Stacie will lose interest in him, as she knows how John acts in each situation. She can control him very easily. Also, John showed indecisiveness in these situations by following her instructions without understanding how attraction works with women.
What John, you, and so many men do not know is women of value are looking for the men who are leaders. If you are indecisiveness and procrastinate, expecting others to make decisions for you will become boring and predictable. As you do not make decisions, you will act on the others’ decisions or do the same things repeatedly. This is not a good sign of dating life.
“If you want your life to be exciting and spiced up, just step out of your comfort zone and lead your love.” – Love Coach Sam.
In case you become indecisive, you must change that habit. So, start making every small decision in your life as Sam did.
Make all the decisions, whether they are right or wrong, in your day-to-day life. Over a period, you will become good at making decisions, act unpredictably, and brings spontaneity to your life.
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