Love Coach Sam is the author of Lead Your Love book and the founder of, which provides personal development advice for men to improve their social skills.

My Story

Like each of you, I am actually a normal guy who went through a point in life in which I had to decide to handle this part of my life called “Love”.

I will not bore you with the details. To make a long story short, I have almost all qualities women generally desires in a man as per mainstream advice-religion, society, movies, and media.

I got a good job, earning a decent amount of income, good character and reasonably good looking. But I struggled to get a girlfriend for many years.


On one fine day, I saw her:

Several years ago, one fine day, I happened to see a beautiful girl with whom I fell in love instantly. I did everything right as per mainstream advice. Out of luck, things went well with her initial days.

But somehow things went out of control later. She began avoiding me and I felt helpless, weak and depressed. My love was true and I loved her sincerely but she did not get the feel of it.

To date, I am sure I am a much better match for her. But then I was just wondering why she did not understand my true love even though I did everything right as per mainstream advice.


My Breakthrough Discovery!

I had another female friend who was similarly beautiful like the girl whom I loved. Off late, my female friend started liking me even though I did not show any interest in her.

Then I was quite confused! Because the girl I loved sincerely began hating me but the girl I did not even show any interest began liking me madly. What Is This Crazy?

I got that Aha moment!

It was my first Aha moment:
Then I took a commitment that I would figure out this LOVE thing at any cost. I spent subsequent several years interacting and understanding many beautiful girls and their behavior in all lifestyles.

To my shocking, what we men think right things, are not right at all. Our parents, teachers, movies, media and society at large have taught us all wrong things when it comes love and relationships.

They taught us their hypocrisy of how guy should be to become attractive to girls. Because of this hypocrisy, I wasted almost 2 years convincing and perusing the girl I loved to understand my true love .

Things that “DID NOT MAKE SENSE” actually “WORKING” with women:
In journey, I discovered the things that “DID NOT MAKE SENSE” actually “WORKING” with women.

The more I studied women, I realized many beautiful women hang out with men who have average looks and income as contrary to mainstream advice that only rich and handsome men will get beautiful girls.

I realized that women liked me more when I fun teased them than I adored and respected them. Women respected me more when I did not entertain their drama than giving more attention to it.

During that process, I have discovered many Million-Dollar Aha moments! which I am going to share with you on this website.


I developed a simple yet universal method to attract girls:

To make a long story short, I made rapid progress by learning from these “Insights”. And I took the things I learned, tested and refined those ideas into a system and put them all together for me.

It’s not my style to tell stories but the fact is I have dated many pretty amazing women over the last several years.

I have taught my system to my friends and colleagues who were struggling with women. These guys are with below average looks and income. They got amazing success with women.

My system saved a guy from suicide:
One of my friends loved a girl sincerely for several years but sadly she dumped him. Unfortunately, he almost went to a point in which he decided to committing suicide.

Fortunately, he told his sad end love story to me. I taught him my proven 3-Step method and taught him his purpose in the life. He used my advice, now he not only got a dream girl he always wanted but also successfully running his own business.

Most Men Fail With Women For Two Reasons:
They believe that love will happen automatically. Hence, they don’t take action. I was no exception for this. I had a strong belief that love happens automatically until I had to fail terribly with women.

Some men take action but they fail because they follow wrong mainstream advice. Hence, these men do not succeed with women.

You don’t need to spend years to learn this stuff:
I have figured out this stuff through trial and error with years of handwork.

My initial failures with women gave me a strong motivation to learn on how to lead my love. The experience and expertise I have gained during the process, taught me that love is something I can make happen with any woman I want.

In other words, I can Lead My Love and Girls. If you follow advice that I am going to teach on this website you can too “Lead Your Love”.

Why Should You Believe That I Can Help You?
Why should you believe in what I am saying when there are so many so called gurus teaching this stuff.

Well, You Should Not.

In fact, I would recommend that you approach my stuff with a “Healthy Cynicism” and “Systematic Perspective”. I want you to TRY what you learned from me.

If you are getting the type of results you want with women and think my advice is useful to other single men in India who are struggle with girls/women, spread the word about Lead Your Love.

When an opportunity comes to meet a dream girl, most men are led by fear. If you know how to lead your love, she will become your girlfriend.


“In life, you are either led by fear or lead your love” -Sam.

Thanks for reading!

Love Coach Sam

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Actually, I am not a good-looking guy, so I thought, most girls love only handsome and rich men, I did not try to approach any girl. One day I found one article on this website, and I read it. After that, I have been visiting the website regularly. I found a lot of content related to how to attract beautiful women is very helpful for Indian men. Hence, I bought the Lead Your Love – Get a Girlfriend Course! believe me, this is the only course you ever need to succeed with beautiful women, I am very impressed. Thank you so much for making such a wonderful course, Sam!

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Frequently Asked Questions

Who Is Love Coach Sam?

From a Love Failure Guy to Love Coach:
Like each of you, I am an ordinary guy who is considerably good-looking and had decent success in my career. In spite, I was unable to attract the girl of my dreams.

The most frustrating thing for me was a few of the girls I had liked chose useless idiots.

I was pretty career-focused in my college days. Hence, I was not keen on this love & dating thing except my career.

My love frustrations started after I got become core & core successful in my career. No gave a damn fuck about my job, status, looks—all the bullshit, which I had believed in my college days, every Indian guy does.

You see, I am a determined guy. Once I decide on anything, I give my 100% effort. I never quit.

After going through a few rejections, one fine day, I had seen this beautiful girl with whom I fell in love instantly. Our initial conversations went well, and she used to give me proper respect because of my career.

After I expressed my feelings, she started to ignore me. I pursued her for two fucking years, hoping that she accept my love.

The more I persist, I only realized she lost all respect for me.

You know what! I want the answers to why she did not like me.

My journey into female psychology, love, dating, pickup began. That incident led me from a love failure guy to an Indian Love Coach, who is helping thousands of men to succeed with girls.

How Your Love Coaching Will Help Single Guys?

The number limiting belief guys has about girls is they think love will happen automatically like movie scenes. They, live in the fantasies of their dream girls but do not take action. Of course! I had been there.

The DNA of my Coaching & my Brand is to Lead Your Love.

I have developed a simple 3 step framework to get a girlfriend and attract girls with minimal effort. I had done all the hard work. You just have to do what I teach in my programs, you will get incredible results.

How can I believe that you can help me?

Well! Genuine concern! I had been there. These days you find dating advice everywhere and by everyone. Everyone claims that they are experts. I completely understand your concern.

You see, I had told you I was a pretty successful guy in my career. I am called an expert in my professional and many look up to me. I am someone who always strived for excellence in whatever I do.

I believe…in the end, the results speak for itself.

It is easy to say I am an expert but difficult to stand by that.

It is easy to put a blog post or two, a video or two. But difficult to write a book.

By the way, I am a published author. Check out my Lead Your Love book.

Check my articles on this blog, and watch my videos on YouTube and decide for yourself.

How does love coaching help me?

If you just want to celebrate your manhood and want to have short term dating experiences with more girls, or want to learn how to get a girlfriend. Love Coach Sam gives all the tools, techniques and methods that will make successful with girls you always wanted.

Why do I need love coaching?

Single guys in India have no clue how to attract girls. They do all wrong things with girls that they learned from movie stars or friends, which actually make them fail with their girl. So Love Coach or Dating Coach will help you to do the right things so that you will attract the girls you have always wanted the right way..

What are your Love Coaching Programs?

Love Coach Sam currently offers live & online coaching programs. Check coaching programs for more details.

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