Recently Anand was dumped by his Girlfriend, Swetha, for no reason. He was upset and worried why the hell in the world she dumped him even though he did everything right.
Anand and Swetha were in love for about two years. For quite a few months, Swetha started behaving strangely, and Anand was upset and had no clue why does she acting like that.
Sadly, the bad moment came in Anand’s life. What Anand was fearing and avoiding had actually happened to him. Swetha broke up her relationship with him.
Anand is very upset like Vijay Devarakonda in the movie “World Famous Lover.” He lost his emotional control.
You know what! Life is unpredictable. What we actually wish to avoid, sometimes happens to us.
But you do not need to suffer like Vijay in the movie.
If you do not know how to train your girlfriend, you will end up being a victim and have to face such a heart wrenching painful breakups.
Today, I am going to tell you how you can train your girlfriend to avoid such a heart wrenching, painful situation. If you learn to do it well, you will lead your love.
Train your girlfriend to follow your standards:
Training your girlfriend does not mean that you have to control her. If you try to control her, it is a sure way to make your life miserable.
People train each other all the time to meet their standards. Your parents trained you, your teacher trained you; your boss trains you. Guess what, even your girlfriend trains you all the time. Every one does.
The big problem with many guys is they are not cautious when the girl shows bad behavior. They silently tolerate it. All of a sudden, they burst emotionally, which causes the relationships to break apart.
Guys try to act nicely and accept whatever second class behavior girl does instead of explicitly mentioning that they do not accept such second class behavior.
If your girlfriend consistently disrespectful, distrustful, or dishonest, why you should want to reward that behavior.
If you lost your emotional control when your girlfriend consistently disrespectful, distrustful, or dishonest, you would only become a victim. You could do all the things to keep your girlfriend happy, but you can still lose her if you do not train her to your standards.
If you train your girlfriend, she should be the one to worry about and trying to make you happy to meet your standards of behavior for what you expect in a good girlfriend. Here is how to do it.
Punish Bad Behavior:
Punish bad behavior by removing your attention or expressing disappointment in her actions. If you are assertive in your communication, this makes her desire your approval and praise. For example, Hey, you know what! I love the fact that you are such an honest girl. But I am disappointed with you because you recently told me that you were at home for some important activity when you were out with your friends partying. A soft statement like this is enough; you do not need to overreact.
Reward Good Behavior:
On the other hand, if she did something you like that you tell her. For example, I loved it when you made that dish for me. It is freaking awesome as you.
Be cautious about how reacts when your girlfriend does something you do not like. Many boys out there lose their emotional control and begin blaming the girl for only the relationships worst.
It is easy to blame others for problems. But a wise man is the one who speaks to the point without hurting the ego of your partner.
Be assertive, be decisive, and be secure.
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