What to say and how to behave on the First date is so important. Because you will never get a second chance to attract the woman. But at the same time, you should not be with the attitude that I don’t want to mess up, I have to be very careful. This attitude can also backfire.
So, you are wondering what will be the answer to this piece of the puzzle and how to lead the date for a better outcome.
1.Prepare In Advance:
Pay attention to yourself- Maintain good hygiene. Women pay attention to very small details, it is natural. So pay close attention to your grooming. Groom yourself like a man and pay special attention to any body odor, and get rid of it when you are going to the first date.
Be your best self- Ware good dress that resembles your personality. If you’re a guy who likes to wear jeans, go for that if you are a guy who likes to wear formals, go for that. You don’t need to change your style for the sake of the woman but make sure your clothing fits well on your body. Throughout the date never convey neediness or express that you badly need her.
Make it clear to the woman that you have other things to do in life, in other words, I have a great life and celebrating it, I am just checking out whether I can take you to my life. Do not tell that; just communicate through your body language and personality.
2. Don’t Be Predictable And Boring:
The first date is not a formal job interview or a press conference or formal marriage process. However, the problem is most of the guys behave in the first dates in a predictable boring way by doing the same boring things, by following boring procedures by the boring suggestion from boring friends.
So, don’t ask boring questions like below:
What are your hobbies? What do you do for a living? Do you think we are a good match? How do you think this particular date is going? Do you like me?
As I mentioned in one of my other Blog posts, top five things women hate in men, being predictable and boring is the in an instant Interest killer, in case you l have not yet read please read.
So instead have a conversation that has interest, curiosity, and suspense. Whenever you have these elements in conversation these will spark attraction at an unconscious level, she feels that you are the “one in million guys she is looking for”. She will have more fun and happiness in her life if you become her boyfriend. So, if she gets that feeling, she will chase you.
3. Understand Sexual Psychology Of Men And Women Is Different:
The primary thing you need to understand. That the woman is seduced differently than the man. The men will be seduced by a woman’s physical beauty. Whereas a woman is drastically different and more complex when it comes to sexual psychology. She can’t go with a man based on his looks because the stakes are high he is a wrong choice.
One of the important difference between the sexual psychology of men and women is that women are more emotional than men and whereas men are more visual than women. That means the men will get attracted to the physical beauty of a woman whereas women will get attracted to the feelings and emotions they had with the man.
Men are more attracted to how appealing the curves are beneath the tight-fitting dress. Women, however, are in quite concerned with things like how you behave in different circumstances and make her feel emotionally connected.
So, project your personality and certainty that is congruent to whom you are. If you are not congruent with your words and actions she will sense very early.